Isabella Pugh

Shyness in children can often be misunderstood. Rather than being supported, shy kids are frequently told to “speak up” or to just “be more confident,” without being given the tools on how to do so. This can lead to children feeling frustration, self-doubt, and creating a low self-esteem. Joining clubs is a great way to build confidence; however clubs often mean new people, larger groups, and the pressure to join in straight away and for shy children this can be daunting. This can lead to many shy children missing out on chances to connect with others and build skills that they are interested in.

That’s where Curious Chameleons comes in. This is a supportive after-school club designed to help shy children feel seen, understood, and encouraged. Our sessions are intentionally kept small and familiar, allowing children to join with classmates they already know, creating a sense of safety from the start. Weekly creative activities gently encourage social connection, and teamwork at a pace that feels comfortable.

Each week, themed creative activities help the children gently step outside their comfort zones. The first few sessions are designed for independent participation, which gradually encourage more interaction and teamwork as the group becomes more familiar and confident with each other. By the end of the term, children are engaging in collaborative activities that build trust and team working skills.

To help motivate and celebrate progress, children earn badges and stickers each week, which they record in their personal activity books, giving the child a clear visual on their progress and achievements. These books also include Chameleon Challenge Bingo, a fun, supportive way for children and parents to work together on tasks that encourage confidence. Completing rows on the bingo board leads to additional rewards and recognition in class. 

The goal is to create a sense of belonging and community in the classroom, where every child can grow at their own pace, because when children feel safe, supported, and accepted, they’re free to build confidence, form friendships, and gently step out of their comfort zones.